Yes, you can get a divorce without a lawyer in Wisconsin. When spouses represent themselves, it is called a pro se divorce or sometimes a “kitchen table divorce.”
Before choosing a do-it-yourself approach, you should understand and consider all of your process options. This includes mediation in which you work jointly with one lawyer who acts as your guide while the two of you make decisions about the outcome.
Are There Risks in Divorcing Without a Lawyer? Yes.
- Inadequate disclosure or lack of understanding financial information: You cannot make informed decisions without full knowledge of income, property, debt, retirement benefits, and future tax effects.
- Short-term solutions with long-term consequences: Keeping a home, waiving maintenance, allocating assets, or taking responsibility for joint debt can affect your finances for years to come.
- No detailed agreements for your children: A family plan should address schedules, holidays, transportation, and decision-making as well as expenses and child support.
- Imbalance in negotiation: Not feeling you can safely make well-informed decisions and have an equal voice in reaching agreements with your spouse.
- Court rejection and delays: Incorrect forms, missing details, or overlooked implementation steps can lead to rejection, added expense, or later conflict.
How Can Mediation Help?
Divorce mediation gives couples legal guidance to make joint decisions without turning divorce into an expensive court conflict. You and your spouse jointly retain one neutral lawyer-mediator to help you discuss and decide family and financial decisions and navigate the legal steps. The goal is to create an agreement that is informed, durable, and livable for you and your family.
At Family Mediation Center, our lawyer mediators can help you through the court process and support well-informed decision-making. The mediator will provide structure, legal education, and drafting support while the two of you control decisions and cost. Financial and family specialists can assist as needed.
Can You Get a Divorce Without Going to Court?
Yes. Wisconsin’s Divorce by Affidavit process provides the option for couples who mediate or are each represented to finalize an uncontested divorce without a court appearance.
Get Guidance While Staying in Control
Family Mediation Center helps Wisconsin couples make informed decisions through an efficient, cooperative process to reach an agreement and get divorced without the need for court. Online mediation is available statewide. Schedule a free phone consultation to learn more.